Je Regrette Rien

"One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself."  Shannon L. Alder

Are there professional and personal situations I could have handled better? Of course. Are there people I wish I would have treated differently along the way? Most certainly. But I'm pretty satisfied with how my life has turned out. I can't say that I have no regrets, but I definitely don't live my life looking in the rearview mirror. I look at those missteps as learning experiences and try not to repeat them. 

How about you? What are your greatest regrets?


The Most Important Question

OK, here we go. It's almost the end of February and I've been asking some Big Questions. This week's is : What is the most important question you have ever asked yourself?

This is a tough one for me to answer. I ask myself a lot of questions, all the time. Most of them are rhetorical (Are you serious? What am I doing here?).  But one of the more common questions I ask myself is: What will I learn from this? Sometimes I ask this question before I decide whether or not to do something, and sometimes it's used as an evaluation tool. Success or failure, it's important for me to figure out what the experience has taught me.

How about you? What important questions do you ask yourself? I really want to know! 


What Inspires You?

This week's Big Question is: What (or who) inspires you? What makes it possible for you to hop out of bed each day, ready to do what you do?

For me, it's my clients. Through listening to them, observing them, and helping them I am motivated to keep doing what I've chosen to do. It's a constant reinforcement of why I decided to become a consultant and focus on the specific needs of smaller organizations. 

The leaders of these organizations are not just my clients- they have become my friends and colleagues. Their passion and dedication to making their communities better is all the inspiration I need.

Huge thanks to all of the wonderful people I have had the honor to work with! 

Lessons Learned?

This week we have a double whammy for you: two Big Questions to ask yourself.

Question number 1: What was the most important lesson you learned in 2017?  For me, it was that I am a resilient person. I wrote a blog about this back in September. I'm looking forward to seeing where this new understanding can lead me.

Question number 2 is: By the end of this year, what do you hope to know more about?  In my professional life, I hope to learn more about my clients (and potential clients) and how I can best help them. In my personal life, I'd like to know more about what the important questions are for me, and possibly get on the path to answering them.

I want to hear what you think about these two questions! Please be in touch. 

Life's Big Questions

For the next few posts, I'm going to do something I've never done before-  focus on a theme. I'm calling it "Life's Big Questions," and, like many things in my life, it is inspired by Oprah. Specifically, the January 2018 issue of O Magazine, which is all about asking yourself the right questions and where the answers can lead you. I am intrigued by the prospect of doing this as both a way to dig deeper within myself as well as learn how the process might work for my clients.

So the first question is "Am I fulfilling my potential?"

I'm going to be asking more big questions in the coming weeks, and I'm looking forward to sharing them (and the answers) with you. Please share yours with me, too!